.................DON'T DO IT JENNIFER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...................

Now Jennifer, I love you like a sister, so I am in no way going to sugar coat this entry.

ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY?! Seriously, do you actually have a brain in that pretty little head of yours? Have you been hit with the same STUPID stick that Britney Spears and Jennifer Lopez have bumps from? You haven't even been dating this jerk for even a YEAR and you honestly think that a marriage can workout between you two? Sweetie, he is USING YOU for PUBLICITY!!! Haven't you noticed that since hooking up with that you he has somehow remained in the press even though he's only released one movie in the past year (much like Demi Moore)? Are you so blind to see that every time you two go out on a date, you're in plain view for the paparazzi to see? Come on, Fenway Park and outdoor cafes are NOT private locations to have dates. Well, only if you know that you'll be photographed and believe me, Ben does and obviously YOU don't! Did you ever notice that Ben only hides his face from the paparazzi when he's around you! When he's alone, he in NO WAY avoids them like you do by running to his Bentley, pulling your hood over your head or hiding behind your designer purse. He is a PUBLICITY WHORE!!!! The worst part is, he tries to deny it. If you TRULY value your privacy, you wouldn't even be with him!


And if you think that the paparazzi are horrible to you now, it will be a LIVING HELL the moment you two get married. Look at Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt, for gawd sakes. What sane woman would want the fleet of paparazzi following them everyday of her life? Supposedly, you do if you actually tie the knot. You've only experienced the TIP of the ice berg by merely dating him. Don't expect to get sympathy when you complain about being chased down because no one made you audition for Alias , no one made you have THREE relationships in LESS than FOUR years and no one told you to get involved with AFFLECK . Since you've dated him for 10 months, you already know the kind of attention he drags along with him. If anyone actually feels sorry for you, then they are as ignorant and naive as you are. Jennifer, you CHOSE your fate, you are NOT a victim of it and you don't deserve to be treated as if you are. No one DOES.

Nothing, and I mean nothing will change him, not even you. No matter how much you nag or sweet talk to him or offer some booty, he will not budge. He dated for Gwenyth for years and he didn't even make an effort to change. After only TEN months of dating, what in your makes you think that YOU could change him? Marriage will not make him falter either and if you think it will, then I'm sorry, but Sweetie, you're a fucking twit. If he doesn't get his career back on track and you flourish, his ego couldn't handle that. He's only dated women who equally or less famous than he is. Then you're going to be twice divorced in your thirties and you'll be alone. Let's just say, you two have a child. You'll be at home with the baby putting your career on the line while he's out either working, gambling or going to strip clubs. Yeah, he's a winner!

So, Jennifer, I beg of you, please lose the loser!